Dear Cozy,
If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar.
Sex is not a taboo word here. Cozy, hear me? You’ve got any question? Ask me. Let me be your first source, not even your books.
Growing up, my knowledge about this was first skewed. My parents tried to shield me from the harmless word. I found out about the act and more by myself.
Sex is beautiful. It is an exchange, a transfer, a transaction. Each person is supposed to give and receive. It is the ultimate bond, trust me.
I’m totally in support of keeping oneself for that special person. It is just amazing. Note that it (virginity) does not make you less or more of a person. It is just one of the things you are bringing to the marriage.
Life goes on without it but it would be sweeter… With it.
Now, I am not going to tell you about locations, positions and processes yet. But, few points:
1. Male-female is what I know.
2. Adults.
3. Consenting.
4. Married.
It is a MAC-M.
Love, Mum.
Just a Little More…
1. Special shout out to parents, you should be friends with your children. Let them be free to gist with you. You really won’t know what’s going on in their world if they don’t. If your child can’t confide in you… It’s sad.
2. Virginity isn’t old fashion. True. However, making people feel awkward or less important or valued because they aren’t is the lowest of the low. We all make our choices. And for some people, remember, it was forced on them.
